When you step onto the land of this Land of Smiles, you might be captivated by the Thai girls, the charm, the scenery, and the food. However, beyond the sunshine and beaches, there are some "scams" hidden here. If you're lucky, you might just lose a bit of money; if not, you could unknowingly become a "human ATM." This article shares some of the most common "sweet lies" from Thai girls, helping you prepare mentally in advance to avoid sinking your ship!
1. Her Age
"I'm only 20 years old!" Sounds appealing? But in reality, she might be 5 years older than you imagine! The reason for altering her age is simple:
To Attract More Investment
A young girl always makes it easier for guys to open their wallets and buy her more drinks. In fact, she might already be approaching 30. New drivers may not have enough experience to discern a girl's real age; if you really want to know, you might need to check her ID.
2. I Just Started Working Today
This phrase often appears in bars or Agogo Bars in Pattaya or Bangkok. "It's my first day working here!" or "I've only been working here for 1 week (1 month)." You might think you've discovered a "brand-new gem," believing the girl in front of you is very innocent. However, in reality, she might have been working at this bar for several months, or even several years. Why does she say this?
Increase Favorability
For novice drivers, it's easier to believe those who seem "pure" and "inexperienced."Earn More Money
Trying to win your sympathy and help by posing as a "newcomer" is a very effective little trick.
3. She Comes from Bangkok
"I was born in Bangkok!" This sounds full of big-city flair, but in reality, she's likely from a small village in the Isan region of northeastern Thailand. This kind of self-packaging as "from Bangkok" aims to make you trust her background more, or to some extent, increase her "value," making you more willing to spend more money on her.
4. You Are Her "One and Only"
"You're the first customer from Taiwan (or elsewhere) I've met!" "You're the first customer I've ever liked!" These words sound like romantic lines from a movie, but calm down and think—maybe it's not entirely true.
This phrase is actually a "self-esteem booster," making you feel good about yourself and willing to spend more, buying her drinks or helping her.
5. She Doesn't Have a Boyfriend
Don't get too excited just because she says she's single. In fact, many Thai girls might have a stable (or multiple) boyfriend (or sponsor) back home, and many even have children. She claims to be single externally just to make more customers "sink their ship" for her, thereby expanding her economic sources—you know what I mean.
6. She Doesn't Like Thai Guys
"Thai guys aren't considerate, aren't romantic, and don't know how to make money." After hearing her complaints, you might feel that as someone from Asia, you're special in her heart, that you're her dream lover. However, the reality is that many girls get along very well with their Thai boyfriends; she just doesn't want you to know.
7. She Doesn't Have Children
When she tells you she's never had children, you might think: "She's the perfect flawless girl!" But in reality, the proportion of young mothers in Thailand is quite high; many girls might be under pressure to earn money for their children's milk powder. Scars from pregnancy on her belly might be a subtle clue.
8. Her Phone Is Broken
"Oppa, my phone is broken! (with a sad look)" Upon hearing this, would you consider directly giving her the latest iPhone? Facts show that some girls use this method to get a desired new phone, and even turn around and sell the new phone, then find the next "sucker."
9. She Needs Help
Some girls might cry about family debts, unpaid tuition for their brother, or some illness without money for treatment. Don't rush to be a hero! She can send this kind of message to over a dozen men or sponsors who like her at once; as long as a few take the bait, she makes a good amount. On one hand, she might want to test your generosity; on the other, she might just want a new bag.
10. She Loves You, Not Your Money
She might tell you she loves you as a person, not your money. But in fact, if you don't live in Thailand and only come occasionally for a period, how much time do you spend together? How deep can your relationship be? The time she spends talking about feelings with you often depends on how much money you've spent on her. No money. No Honey!
Finally, How to Avoid Being Scammed?
Stay Alert
Thailand is indeed romantic and enchanting, but don't let sweet words cloud your judgment.Understand the Rules of the Game
Don't take every smile and every compliment seriously.Leave Yourself Some Room
Don't invest time and money too early; observe the other person's words and actions slowly.